We are off to a great start in preschool. We began the year with only five students. A big change from twelve last year. Yesterday we added a new student to our class. The kids almost always love coming to school. This particular student was not so happy to be there yesterday. She did not want the auntie to go home. She cried off and on for about the first hour of school. Asking if she could go home. All she said all day was “go home” in Cebuano.
I think I had just as tough of a morning as my student did yesterday. I know this student will do well in school. She is ready to be in school and will catch on to things quickly. She was just unsure and felt safe with the aunties in the houses that she had bonded with in just a short time of being at CSC. Having left her family, meeting all the caregivers at CSC, and now starting school in a short period of time is a lot for a four year old to sort through.
Well, today was a new day. She came to school today and cried as the auntie left. I picked her up and carried her in my arms into the classroom. She was quiet and listened attentively as we sang songs, and read a stroy about snakes. During art time, she colored her snake quietly as she sat next to me not saying a word. When she had finished coloring, I held her paper plate snake as she began to cut it in a circular motion. I then took her hand in mine and we gently cut together. As we were about half of the way through cutting she looked up at me and said, “ Amiga ka?.” which can be translated into “Are you my friend?” or “You are my friend.” Depending on how it is said. I responded “Yes, amiga ko.” “I am your friend.” She immediately smiled and was happy the rest of the day. Something changed in her little heart and mind when she realized I was her friend. Whether it was my loving gesture of taking her hand in mine and helping her cut, or the words of affirmation of hearing that I was her friend, she began to trust and feel safe. When that moment happened, she realized preschool was going to be ok.
I have been thinking about the words amiga ka all day. To know you have a friend who you can trust, laugh, cry, and feel safe with is a wonderful blessing whether you are four or ninety four. Thank God for all the wonderful friends He has placed in your life and look for opportunites to be a good friend today!
